Narcissist Collects More Evidence Against Me.

Recently I wrote about my ex-husband (narcissist) leaving “lovenotes” in my boxes of stuff that I had been storing in the basement of our former marital home. You guys loved his insanity so much that the post got over 900 hits in two days! Link: http://18mitzvot.com/2015/05/03/poor-narcissists-feel-abused-too/ Well, I found another note to share with you. Oh, what a caring pet owner to take so many pictures. Too bad she would later not just leave them, but leave them in the care of a bankrupted individual for whom the financial cost was nearly overwhelming. Too bad that “womyn” was the direct reason (more…)

Poor Narcissists Feel Abused, Too.

Remember how I wrote that my NPD husband had gone thru each and every one of my storage boxes? And how he needed to fondle each item and then repack the boxes? (Creepy, yes, I know…) Well, he also left notes on some things. For example: Note from my NPD husband. This is a joke poem that my boss gave to me in college, c.1987. My NPD spouse found it, placed it in this golden frame, and left a note on it. I thought the poem was really funny because it exposes how completely unreasonable women can be to their mates. (more…)

How Important Is A Loving Home To Recovery From Trauma?

Since I moved in with my brother 22 days ago, I have begun to return to the best version of myself. This is happening for one reason and that is because he loves me. (As an extra, he doesn’t criticize me either.) In this loving environment, I immediately started to blossom and flourish. The best version of myself is the Rivka who is always working on a creative project… or two or three. Formerly, when I was under the guidance of my husband, Driftwood (or the evil influence of a narcissist), I would start a project like tiling the kitchen backsplash; (more…)

Reblog: My Story….the first bomb

A perfect description of Lovebombing by a mate with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Please share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pocket (Opens in new window)Click to share on Google+ (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Like this:Like Loading... (more…)

Reblog: The Narcissist: Good bye to my imaginary soul mate

A very well written story about the early stages of coping with the red flags of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Please share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pocket (Opens in new window)Click to share on Google+ (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Like this:Like Loading... (more…)

Narcissists Are Jealous.

I’m watching JTV, a television channel for selling jewelry. They show a piece of jewelry and then you can phone in and buy it on your credit card. I’m watching because they’re featuring handmade artisanal jewelry from Israel and the designer, Udi Behr, is Israeli. I’m enjoying his heavily accented English. He made a funny faux-pas about “enjoying family bondage”. Very cute. Let’s be clear. I’m not making fun of him; I’m enjoying him. You should hear how I mangle his mother tongue when I speak Hebrew. I miss my home (Tzfat). Making fun of people reminds me of Driftwood (narcissist) (more…)

The Truth About Narcissism.

I started writing my WordPress.com blog after I survived suicide. Through blogging, I tried to make sense of what had happened to me and within me. The genesis of my story was David, my dearest friend and lover, who would later be diagnosed by a team of competent psychiatrists as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), commonly called narcissism. Naturally, I started researching narcissism. What is it? How do you catch it? How can it be cured? I became somewhat of an expert on narcissism and its specific pattern of abusive behaviors known as Idealize, Devalue, and Discard. Everyone knows the adage (more…)