Category: Ex-Husband

Red Flags that Your Lover is Abusive.

I am re-posting this image because it is a snapshot of my ex-marriage to my ex-abuser. Conversations went like this: ignore me yawn avoid eye contact interrupt mention some mistake I made 3 years ago deny talk thru me or shout over me be dismissive hijack the conversation Read More

Re: SexyBeast.

SexyBeast was my first husband. I left him 20 years ago, and he didn’t understand why. To him, it seemed like it came out of nowhere and he was devastated. He fought hard to get me to change my mind, but I don’t ever change my mind. There was nothing he could do to make Read More

Narcissist Collects More Evidence Against Me.

Recently I wrote about my ex-husband (narcissist) leaving “lovenotes” in my boxes of stuff that I had been storing in the basement of our former marital home. You guys loved his insanity so much that the post got over 900 hits in two days! Link: http://18mitzvot.com/2015/05/03/poor-narcissists-feel-abused-too/ Well, I found another note to share with you. Read More

Poor Narcissists Feel Abused, Too.

Remember how I wrote that my NPD husband had gone thru each and every one of my storage boxes? And how he needed to fondle each item and then repack the boxes? (Creepy, yes, I know…) Well, he also left notes on some things. For example: This is a joke poem that my boss gave Read More

Narcisstic Weirdness.

I arrived safely in Aurora, Illinois; found the local Jewish community; and started writing my first blog posts… when my laptop crashed. Boo hiss! My beloved computer is less than one year old and still under warranty. I actually bought her here in Aurora, so I took her back to the TigerDirect shop to be Read More

Photographic Burdens.

Moving Day is in five days. I was packing up the closet when I came across the photos of my ex-wedding. My mom had thought I would want them, so she gave them to me, and I promptly stashed them away. I wish she hadn’t given them to me. I could throw them in the garbage and pretend Read More

Catching a Narcissist in a Lie.

Let’s say the narcissist has been cheating, having sex with other women. There are numerous ways that he or she can be outed: The other woman may catch him cheating on her with you. Now you know, too. The other woman may already know about you, but believe you and the narcissist are separating. When Read More

Divorcing a Narcissist: Trauma Upon Trauma.

My ex has continued his infantile behavior of not taking my phone calls and not returning my messages, therefore, I got in the truck and drove to his house. My brother (who doesn’t think like a narcissist) thought this was a bad idea because it’s an hour and a half drive each way. What if Read More

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