This question is a popular search term that brings people to my blog.
Is the narcissist my Twin Flame?
There are two possible answers here:
Yes, he (or she) is your Twin Flame
No, he (or she) is not your Twin Flame.
Let’s deal with the NO first because it is easier to explain.
NO option #1. The narcissist cannot be your Twin Flame because there is no such thing. The Torah says there is. It is written in the Gemara (Sotah 2) that 40 days before a man is conceived, a voice calls out from Heaven “the daughter of Ploni for him”. The Sages concur that every man has a mate who is chosen by God Himself.
NO option #2. Twin Flames do exist, but he is not your Twin Flame.
You want him to be, but he isn’t.
Result: You have to keep looking.
Now, let’s deal with the YES answer. The narcissist is your Twin Flame.
YES option #1. The narcissist is in truth your soulmate, but he has rejected you.
I have always believed that the single greatest challenge in any life is to end up with one’s Twin Flame.
(Twin Flame, zivug, soulmate, true love)
Challenge #1. You have to meet him. What if I live in Miami and he lives in Toronto? How will we meet?
Challenge #2. You have to recognize him. You may think he is such a great guy… that you fix him up with your little sister. Whoops.
Challenge #3. He has to recognize you. Women have better intuition that men. We figure these things out more quickly than they do. In the interim, he may marry someone else. Shit happens.
Challenge #4. If he recognizes you as his Twin Flame and you recognize him as your Twin Flame, then neither one of you can be a narcissist in order for the miracle unification to happen. Sorry. I don’t make the rules.
The worst thing you can do for yourself is ASSUME that the narcissist was your one and only Twin Flame and that now you are doomed to exist without love for the rest of your life.
I tell you, God is not that cruel.
The Sages stated that God makes second Twin Flames if the first one doesn’t work out or the first wife dies. You should not give up hope and you can increase your chances of finding your Heaven-ordained best match by doing acts of kindness. You can earn a better match by being nice to other people. It’s true. It’s in the Torah.
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