I lost another follower! Waah.
I never thought I would even care about being cyber-unfriended by people! According to my Stats Page, because I posted about Suicide and Right-To-Die, a few people un-followed my blog. Clearly those few people never dealt with a Narcissist. Or more likely, refuse to admit to themselves that the man or woman they love so passionately is truly a Narcissist, and like all Narcissists, will try to kill them when they are used up.
This is a most eye-opening quote that caused me to admit that my Narcissist was responsible for the evil actions that he committed against me. He was not the Victim that he continuously claimed to be. He is, in fact, an abusive user who never loved me very much.
10% of Psychopaths will kill you.
The other 90% will watch you kill yourself.
“Surviving the Predators Among Us: Recognizing the Psychopath”
by Junie Moon
I know that it deeply hurts to confront the truth that your lover or your parent or your dearest friend abused you because they just don’t care about you. You love them. How can it be that they hurt you so coldly? It’s the worst thing that can happen. Please remember that it’s not your fault. It’s a sick science the way a Narcissist chooses his or her victims. He purposely attacks people who are loving and generous… but maybe also needy. A Narcissist chose you because you have the biggest heart he ever knew and he wanted to destroy it. All Narcissists are jealous of people who can feel love and be loving towards others. Seeing others in love makes them angry, even if it’s their own significant other! Actually, even more so. The narcissist thinks, “Who could love someone like me? I’m so awful.” In his sick way of thinking, you made him feel guilty and must die. Seriously. They want to kill you.
If confronting Narcissistic abuse, devalue, and suicide makes you too uncomfortable to continue following my blog, then I say you just ran a red flag up the flagpole. You are probably in danger. Do not isolate yourself and make sure that a family member checks in on you every three days. Start reading other people’s true stories at websites like www.psychopathfree.com or www.letmereach.com
I wish that no-one else would ever have to suffer the devalue & discard of a Narcissist; but that is a dream. In the meanwhile, I promise to continue to write excruciatingly truthful and often embarrassing stories about my life with a lover who suffers from Narcissism.
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