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The point at which I clearly should have started No Contact was when the Narcissist started No Contact. After he decided that I no longer existed, then I no longer existed. Had I been much younger, perhaps I would have driven past his apartment a few times a day or ‘bumped into him’ in the grocery store; but I am 47 years old and I did not do these things. In fact, I even avoided his subway line completely. I used to fantasize hourly about meeting him on the subway, that the doors would open and there he would be. I